
Many people have had good results using hypnosis to
stop smoking, to help with eating disorders or other problems. For over 25 years as a
practicing sex therapist, I have often used hypnotherapy and other forms of hypnosis such
as guided imagery, psychodrama and gestalt. These are very suggestible forms of therapy
and should not be taken lightly. When used correctly, hypnotherapy is an excellent tool
for helping people. However, there have been unqualified therapists who have put unfounded
suggestions in peoples minds about recalled sexual abuse which has led to
counterattacks by the False Memory Syndrome Foundation.
A task force
on traumatic amnesia found that memory can be recovered, but it is impressionable and may
be affected by external influences. Regardless of how memory is recalled, it is necessary
to have proof that the event actually happened.
Through guided
visualization, the power of the unconscious mind is in an alpha state of increased
suggestibility, and many people are able to go on a journey that can assist them in
altering their behavior. While not always a cure, the journey can supply building blocks
that can help in freeing feelings and attitudes that may be inhibiting. It can help a
person understand conflicts and how to do something constructive to solving them.
Not everyone
is an appropriate subject. Some people are more susceptible to being hypnotized than
others. There are people who are right-brain dominant (the mind flows rather than
concentrating analytically). Then there are those who are left-brain dominant (rational
and logical thinking). When one is in an altered state of consciousness, verbal, rational
and analytical thinking is set aside and attention is then focused on subconscious
behaviors. Once these subconscious behaviors are understood the choice is within the power
of the individual to take appropriate action toward taking charge of the condition thus
allowing change to occur.
A specific
case that comes to mind in my practice is that of a very intelligent 35 year old
professional male who was so uncomfortable talking to a female that he was not even able
to talk in an imaginary situation of gestalt. This therapy was done with an empty chair.
The man was to imagine talking to a female who was in the chair. He started to shake and
was unable to continue. I put him into a light hypnotic trance using a relaxation
technique, soft music (I use Bizets Pachobel) and suggestions. He was
then able to speak in a more comfortable manner. I gave him a post hypnotic suggestion,
keeping the music in his mind, and after a while he was able to call a woman he had met at
a church social.
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Another case was that of a female who was unable to
become aroused. Under hypnosis, I was able to have her do guided steps of arousal in her
mind and to tell her feelings as we went along. This too was successful.
There is an
exercise in hypnosis where the person is suggestively guided to enter a special nerve
center room with a master control that regulates all feelings and desires. There are
panels in the room with dials and levers with different numbers. Gradually as the
suggestions are given, the person comfortably turns the dials and levers in their mind
according to their feelings. Post hypnotic suggestions and exercises are given so that the
person can easily adjust a dial in their mind to regulate their level of desire and
interest when conscious.
Subtle changes
are almost imperceptible when they first begin, but with the awareness of being able to
have control in an unconscious state, the person realizes that control can be attained in
a conscious state. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "Do the thing you fear to do, and the
death of fear is certain." For many people this is only something they can face under
hypnosis, and often his statement becomes convincing.
Sexual
performance can be adversely affected by stress or emotional problems and may also include
ignorance of sexual functions and physiology. For hypnotherapy to be successful, the
patient must have a capacity for imagery and a desire to recognize and accept hypnosis as
a safe procedure. In reality, the patients give themselves permission to create the
pictures that will produce the interventions to gain control over the symptoms. When
unconscious resistance to change is altered, the conscious mind no longer reflects fear,
anxiety, or guilt. The conscious mind now can process, integrate, and restructure
experiences. Hypnotherapy can bring about self-awareness allowing the patient to detach
from the past and thus restructure the present.
The motivation
needed to change is within oneself, and facing ones inner self under hypnosis can be
a catalyst for change. end



Dr. Adele Zorn is a Diplomate of the
American Board of Sexology. |